Married Finances: Should Two Become One?
Posted on July 28, 2008 - Filed Under Finance | 1 Comment
Do you feel pressured to share everything with your new spouse? Sometimes it’s more loving to keep some things separate.
Weddings are an emotional celebration. We love the idea of a bride and groom starting a new life together. We use words like “two becoming one? or “sharing your lives as one,? meaning that everything will be shared as though the couple are no longer individuals. I believe this puts a lot of unnecessary sentimental pressure on a couple to share all their finances even though it’s not always necessary, or even wise, to do so for every single account or property.
Read More..>>When you need a divorce lawyer - Do research, then choose.
Posted on June 25, 2008 - Filed Under Business | 2 Comments
If you are ready to hire a private investigator, it means that you have something you would like them to find out.
There may come a point in your marriage when a breakup is inevitable and if that happens a good divorce lawyer will be the first item on a list of things to do; you will want them to possess certain attributes for instance:
Read More..>>Just Broken Up And Want To Get Back With Your Ex?
Posted on May 23, 2008 - Filed Under Technology | Leave a Comment
If you’ve just broken up with your partner or are in the last days of a dying relationship you need to read this article.
We’ve all been there. The pain and emotional turmoil of a bitter break
up or the disillusionment of a marriage or relationship that is in its
dying days. All that time and energy and love seemingly gone, wasted.
The end of a relationship. But does it have to be?…
Universal Laws of Energy and Change - Part 1
Posted on April 20, 2008 - Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
This is the first of two articles on energy and change, discussing intention and action and how energy affects all of these aspects.
Change occurs when energy shifts. To understand change, one needs to understand the dynamics of energy. Everything emanates energyanimate beings, physical objects, even thoughts and feelingsand these energy “fields” impact and alter all they touch. If we are to have control over the changes in our lives, we must also understand the importance of thoughts, beliefs, ideas, and feelings as energy. Only when we understand and can apply the following basic laws of the universe will we be able to consciously affect the change process:
Read More..>>Remarriage Preparation - When Are We Ready to Remarry?
Posted on April 9, 2008 - Filed Under Family | Leave a Comment
After a divorce, taking the plunge to remarry can be a scary endeavor. Read on to learn some of the best ways to tell that both you and your partner are ready.
My coaching clients ask this question all the time. They are searching for ways to avoid getting hurt again and to feel confident in their decision to give marriage another try. It’s a great question because they’ve learned from experience that just being “in love” doesn’t always mean you’re ready to marry.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment and the decision to enter into it should be taken very seriously. The last thing you want to do is rely on emotions only.
Read More..>>Four Reasons Why Many Marriages Are Unsuccessful
Posted on April 6, 2008 - Filed Under Social Issues | Leave a Comment
In this article we will discuss four reasons why many marriages are unsuccessful.
Recent studies have shown that a large percentage of people who get married are divorced within the first 2 years of the marriage. I will discuss some of the main reasons why these marriages have been unsuccessful.
Rushing into marriage
All too often people will get married without taking ample time to get to know their partner. There are many people who have gotten married to someone after knowing them for less than six months. This is not enough time to decide whether you are truly interested in getting married to someone. After most of these couples get married they realize that they are not compatible so they will end the marriage.
Read More..>>Divorce to Remarriage - Are You Stuck or Moving Forward?
Posted on April 6, 2008 - Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
One of the most important steps that divorced parents can take before getting remarried is to let go of the strong emotions from their divorce. These are the emotions that hold us prisoners to our thoughts.
As a divorced parent, one of the most important steps you can take before getting remarried is to make sure you’ve let go of the strong emotions you felt due to the divorce. Those thoughts keep you focused on the past and don’t allow for accepting what can be in your future.
Read More..>>Life After Divorce - Despair, Depression or Hope: Which Will it Be?
Posted on April 1, 2008 - Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
While sadness after a divorce is pretty much a given, how far will that sadness go? Take a look at some of the problems with letting it go too far…
Divorce causes so many different emotions that it can seem overwhelming at times. One of the strongest of these emotions is despair. It’s easy to understand why despair comes along in the course and aftermath of a divorce. So many things are changing at once that it’s difficult to be able to focus on all of them, let alone cope with them. After debris has settled though, holding onto despairing thoughts is more likely to leave you stuck than it is in helping you to pick up the pieces and move forward.
Read More..>>Rejuvenate Your Relationship Through The Power Of Gratitude
Posted on January 12, 2008 - Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
You have the power to change your mood at this very moment—to increase your optimism, elevate your energy and enthusiasm, and increase your motivation toward reaching your personal goals. How is this possible?
By sowing the seeds of gratitude.
Research shows that when you increase feelings of gratitude, a domino effect occurs and you begin to experience other positive changes as well, such as increased overall happiness. If you’ve ever been told to “count your blessings,” you should have listened.
What is gratitude and why is it important to your relationship?
Read More..>>3 Factors That Will Improve Marriage
Posted on January 8, 2008 - Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Happily ever after is not a fairy tale. There are couples that have been married happily for years. So what keeps these marriages going strong until death? I don’t believe it is just one factor that keeps couples together forever. I think it is several contributing factors all rolled into one that work together and here they are.
1. Commitment
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